Is Perimenopause Running the Show (and Not Letting You Read the Script)?

Let’s change that—starting today.


Perimenopause can feel like a full-time job no one trained you for. The mood swings. The fatigue. The 3AM anxiety spirals. Sound familiar?


You don’t have to do this alone—and you shouldn’t

have to piece it together from late-night Google searches. That’s why I created these free guides to help you cut through the chaos and start feeling like you again.


Grab one now and get real-life tools to support your hormones, energy, mood, and more.

What Even is Perimenopause?


Think of it like the winding (and sometimes bumpy) road leading up to menopause. It usually kicks off in your 40s—but for some women, it can start even earlier.


Hormone shifts during this time can cause symptoms like:

✅Hot flashes that hit out of nowhere

✅Mood swings that rival your teen years

✅Night sweats, brain fog, and libido plot twists

✅Irregular periods that love to keep you guessing


Sound familiar?


It can feel like your body’s rewriting the script without telling you—but here’s the thing:

You’re not broken. You’re transitioning. And it’s completely normal.

The key is having the right tools, support, and knowledge to navigate it with more clarity (and a lot less confusion).

Hi, I'm Kim

Holistic Nutritionist. Certified Menopause Coaching Specialist. Midlife truth-teller.

I’ve been where you are—confused, exhausted, and wondering if I was the only one Googling “why do I feel like a hormonal alien?” at 3AM.

Now, I help women in midlife ditch the guesswork and get real support for their hormones, health, and emotional well-being. My approach blends science-backed tools, mindset shifts, and plenty of permission to not have it all together!

This isn’t just about surviving perimenopause.

It’s about reclaiming your energy, your mood, your body—and your joy.

My Approach: Real Support, Real Women, Real Results


Let’s be real—midlife health advice often feels like it was written for 25-year-olds with zero hormone chaos and unlimited time. That’s not you. And it’s definitely not me.


Here’s what I believe:

✅You don’t need to “push through” or “just deal with it.”

✅Your symptoms aren’t in your head—they’re in your hormones.

✅Real change happens when we stop judging ourselves and start supporting ourselves (with food, movement, rest, and compassion).

As a Holistic Nutritionist and Menopause Coaching Specialist, I focus on science-backed strategies

blended with grace, humor, and zero shame. Whether you’re dealing with mood swings, fatigue, or a libido that ghosted you—there’s a way forward.


My work isn’t about perfection—it’s about giving your body what it needs and your mind the space to catch up.

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Cracking the Code: How Hormone Testing Unlocks the Mysteries of Perimenopause

“Many will argue that menopause is a natural process and we should just let it take its course and allow our bodies to do what they’re supposed to do. My response is that yes, the process is natural, but that doesn’t mean that it is not harmful.”

― Mary Claire Haver, The New Menopause: Navigating Your Path Through Hormonal Change with Purpose, Power, and Facts

Unlocking the Mystery: How Hormones Shape Your Perimenopause Experience

Let’s be real—perimenopause can feel like your body’s pulling a prank you didn’t sign up for. One minute you’re thriving, the next you’re crying over burnt toast and wondering why your jeans hate you.

Mood swings, insomnia, weight gain, and irregular cycles aren’t random—they’re hormonal breadcrumbs. And following them? That’s where hormone testing comes in.

For me, the turning point was a simple blood test. It showed that my estrogen was running a little wild compared to my progesterone—and suddenly, I wasn’t in the dark anymore. I had a plan.

What Even Is Going On With Estrogen?

During perimenopause, your hormones don’t just gently decline. Nope. Estrogen becomes unpredictable—surging one week, tanking the next—while progesterone tends to quietly decline in the background. This mismatch can trigger symptoms that make you feel like a stranger in your own body.

Some folks still call this "estrogen dominance," but let’s clear that up: most hormone specialists agree that term oversimplifies things. It’s not about one hormone being “too much”—it’s about how they’re dancing (or stepping on each other’s toes).

In my case, estrogen was higher relative to my progesterone at the time of testing—and the symptoms matched up.

When Estrogen Runs the Show (Temporarily):

  • Heavy or irregular periods

  • Bloating and water retention

  • Breast tenderness

  • Mood swings and irritability

  • Sleep disturbances

  • Weight settling around your middle like an unwanted houseguest

Once we connected the dots, everything started to make sense. I worked with my provider on a new approach—bioidentical progesterone, a few lifestyle shifts, and a lot more grace.


Hormone Testing: Your Body’s Blueprint

Think of hormone testing as a peek into your body's group chat. Estrogen, progesterone, cortisol, and thyroid hormones are all chatting behind the scenes—testing helps you figure out who’s being loudest and why.

Whether it’s blood, saliva, or urine testing, the right test can help you make sense of symptoms that feel all over the place.

Helpful Hormones to Check:

  • Estrogen (estradiol, estrone, estriol)

  • Progesterone – the calming hormone

  • FSH (Follicle-Stimulating Hormone) – rises as menopause approaches

  • Cortisol and DHEA – your stress and energy players

  • Thyroid hormones (TSH, Free T3, Free T4) – crucial for metabolism, mood, and more

What Hormone Testing Can Do:

  • Confirm perimenopause—especially if you’re under 45 and unsure

  • Highlight patterns like low progesterone or fluctuating estrogen

  • Guide hormone therapy decisions (no more guesswork!)

  • Track how your body responds to changes over time

✨ Reminder: hormones fluctuate constantly—especially during perimenopause. One test won’t give the full story, which is why tracking symptoms alongside test results is the sweet spot.


Is Hormone Testing Right for You?

Not everyone needs to test their hormones—and that’s okay. Many providers will diagnose based on symptoms alone (like hot flashes, mood changes, or skipped periods). But in some cases, testing can shine a light on what’s really going on.

You might benefit from testing if:
✔ Your symptoms don’t match what’s “typical”
✔ You’re considering hormone therapy and want a baseline
✔ You’re dealing with early menopause signs
✔ You just want clarity (because your body feels like a mystery novel)


Hormone Testing: Myth vs. Reality

🚫 Myth: Hormone testing gives you all the answers
Reality: It’s helpful, but not a crystal ball. Hormones are like toddlers—moody, unpredictable, and always changing. You need more than a one-time snapshot.


How to Be Your Own Best Advocate

Perimenopause is your body’s way of handing you the mic and saying, “It’s time to tune in.” Whether or not you go the testing route, here’s how to lead with confidence:

📝 Track Your Symptoms – Log your cycle, sleep, energy, mood, and food cravings
💬 Ask Smart Questions – “Why are we testing this?” “How will it change the plan?”
🎯 Personalize Your Plan – You’re not a textbook case. Your body, your rules.


Trust the Process. Trust Yourself.

Perimenopause might feel like an unscripted reality show, but you’re the director. Hormone testing gave me clarity and a path forward—but the real shift came when I stopped second-guessing myself and started listening.

You are not broken. You’re not alone. You’re just in transition—and you’re allowed to ask questions, seek support, and say, “Hey, I want to feel better.”

You’ve got instincts, options, and (maybe) a little bloodwork to back it all up. Let’s go.


Want to Dig Deeper?

If you're ready to decode your symptoms and get to the why behind the chaos, don’t miss this:
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Hormonally Yours,

Kimberlee Erin

Just a heads-up: I’m a Certified Menopause Coaching Specialist and Holistic Nutritionist, and while I love sharing what’s worked for me and my clients, this blog is for informational purposes only. It’s not a substitute for medical advice. Always check in with your healthcare provider before starting new supplements, hormones, or treatments—especially since every woman’s perimenopause journey is different. You deserve personalized care that truly fits you.

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Meeting Kim was a turning point in my perimenopause journey. I was overwhelmed by the constant fatigue and emotional ups and downs. Kim’s holistic approach helped me understand what my body was going through. Her personalized nutrition plans and stress management techniques have been a lifesaver. I now feel more balanced and in control of my health. Kim's support has been nothing short of amazing.

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