Is Perimenopause Running the Show (and Not Letting You Read the Script)?

Let’s change that—starting today.


Perimenopause can feel like a full-time job no one trained you for. The mood swings. The fatigue. The 3AM anxiety spirals. Sound familiar?


You don’t have to do this alone—and you shouldn’t

have to piece it together from late-night Google searches. That’s why I created these free guides to help you cut through the chaos and start feeling like you again.


Grab one now and get real-life tools to support your hormones, energy, mood, and more.

What Even is Perimenopause?


Think of it like the winding (and sometimes bumpy) road leading up to menopause. It usually kicks off in your 40s—but for some women, it can start even earlier.


Hormone shifts during this time can cause symptoms like:

✅Hot flashes that hit out of nowhere

✅Mood swings that rival your teen years

✅Night sweats, brain fog, and libido plot twists

✅Irregular periods that love to keep you guessing


Sound familiar?


It can feel like your body’s rewriting the script without telling you—but here’s the thing:

You’re not broken. You’re transitioning. And it’s completely normal.

The key is having the right tools, support, and knowledge to navigate it with more clarity (and a lot less confusion).

Hi, I'm Kim

Holistic Nutritionist. Certified Menopause Coaching Specialist. Midlife truth-teller.

I’ve been where you are—confused, exhausted, and wondering if I was the only one Googling “why do I feel like a hormonal alien?” at 3AM.

Now, I help women in midlife ditch the guesswork and get real support for their hormones, health, and emotional well-being. My approach blends science-backed tools, mindset shifts, and plenty of permission to not have it all together!

This isn’t just about surviving perimenopause.

It’s about reclaiming your energy, your mood, your body—and your joy.

My Approach: Real Support, Real Women, Real Results


Let’s be real—midlife health advice often feels like it was written for 25-year-olds with zero hormone chaos and unlimited time. That’s not you. And it’s definitely not me.


Here’s what I believe:

✅You don’t need to “push through” or “just deal with it.”

✅Your symptoms aren’t in your head—they’re in your hormones.

✅Real change happens when we stop judging ourselves and start supporting ourselves (with food, movement, rest, and compassion).

As a Holistic Nutritionist and Menopause Coaching Specialist, I focus on science-backed strategies

blended with grace, humor, and zero shame. Whether you’re dealing with mood swings, fatigue, or a libido that ghosted you—there’s a way forward.


My work isn’t about perfection—it’s about giving your body what it needs and your mind the space to catch up.

From the Blog: Real Talk for Real Hormones


No fluff. No fear-mongering. Just science-backed advice, cheeky encouragement, and the kind of midlife support you actually want to read. Whether you're riding the emotional rollercoaster or wondering if brain fog is your new personality—I've got you.

A midlife woman standing on a bathroom scale, representing the struggle with weight loss in perimenopause and the shift toward energy and sustainable health

Beyond the Scale: How to Lose Weight and Gain Energy in Perimenopause

October 01, 20254 min read

Beyond the Scale: How to Lose Weight and Gain Energy in Perimenopause

“You have to sit down and take a good look at yourself, particularly as you grow older and your face changes. People are afraid of changing; that they’re losing something. They don’t understand that they are also gaining something.”Sharon Stone


Weight loss in perimenopause isn’t just about looking smaller — it’s about finally feeling like yourself again. If you’ve been “doing everything right” but still feel stuck, it’s not your willpower, it’s your approach. The truth? Hormones, metabolism, and energy are all playing together in ways no fad diet ever explained. The real game-changer is learning to stop punishing your body and start fueling it.


Why Focusing on Energy Changes the Weight Loss Game

If the scale has been your daily frenemy, try measuring success by energy first. When energy rises, consistency, cravings, and metabolism all improve.

  • Energy drives consistency. More pep = more walks lifted, meals prepped, and plans kept.

  • Hunger hormones matter. Low energy and poor sleep raise ghrelin (your “go eat” signal) and lower leptin (the “you’re full” cue). Translation: everything looks like a snack, especially at night.

  • Stress isn't a hunger hormone—but it pokes them. Cortisol (your stress hormone) isn’t classified as a hunger hormone, but it can increase reward-seeking cravings and bump blood sugar. The crash that follows makes you hungrier and nudges belly-fat storage.

  • Sleep + energy = better metabolism. When sleep improves, ghrelin drops, leptin rises, cortisol steadies—and weight loss in perimenopause gets far easier.

Energy-first fix: Build protein-forward meals with fiber-rich carbs and healthy fats, anchor your day with a consistent sleep routine, and choose movement that leaves you feeling better after—not wrecked.

Science quickie: Ghrelin = “go eat.” Leptin = “leave it.” Cortisol = stress signal that can stir up cravings.


The Best Diet for Perimenopause Weight Loss: Fueling with Fiber, Protein, and Fats

This isn’t about eating less. It’s about eating better. During perimenopause, your body needs nutrients to keep blood sugar steady, hormones supported, and cravings in check.

  • Fiber-rich carbs: Think lentils, quinoa, chia seeds, berries, and sweet potatoes. They regulate digestion, balance blood sugar, and feed your gut microbiome — which plays a surprising role in weight and mood.

  • Protein power: At least 30 g per meal helps prevent muscle loss (which accelerates after 40), keeps you fuller longer, and boosts metabolism. Women often under-eat protein — and then wonder why they’re hungry an hour after “dinner.”

  • Healthy fats: Omega-3s from salmon, flax, and walnuts reduce inflammation, while olive oil and avocado support brain health and hormones.

💡 Energy hack: Build meals with all three macros (protein + fiber carb + fat). That combo is magic for perimenopausal metabolism.


Exercise in Perimenopause: Movement for Energy, Not Punishment

Raise your hand if cardio machines and calorie counters have made you feel like you were serving a sentence. 🙋‍♀️

But here’s the science: endless cardio spikes cortisol, which increases belly fat storage.

What works better?

  • Strength training (2–3x/week): Builds lean muscle, protects bones, and raises metabolism. Muscle is your midlife “fountain of youth.”

  • Cardio with intention: Walking, cycling, or swimming improves heart health and boosts mood without frying your nervous system.

  • Recovery + flexibility: Yoga, Pilates, and stretching lower stress and help you actually enjoy moving.

👉 The new motto: exercise for energy, not for punishment.


Mindset Shift: From Dieting to Nourishment in Perimenopause

Perimenopause is the stage when diet culture lies hit hardest — promising quick fixes just when your hormones are rewriting the rules. Here’s the shift:

  • Dieting = restriction, obsession, burnout.

  • Nourishment = sustainability, energy, self-respect.

Instead of “What can I cut out?” ask “What does my body need to feel good?”
That small change is the difference between white-knuckling through another diet and actually enjoying food that fuels you.


Long-Term Vision: Thriving Beyond the Scale

Yes, you may want to lose weight in perimenopause — and that’s valid. But here’s the bigger vision:

  • Strong bones so you’re not fearful of fractures in your 60s.

  • Steady energy so you can travel, work, or play without crashing.

  • Mental clarity so brain fog doesn’t run your day.

  • Confidence in your skin, no matter what the scale says.

This is about building habits that help you thrive well into your 50s, 60s, and beyond — not just about what jeans size you’re in.


Ready to Reset Your Energy?

You don’t need another diet that leaves you drained and discouraged. You need a midlife reset that honors your hormones, metabolism, and energy.

Download my free Midlife Reset Workbook and start fueling your body the right way.
Or, if you’re ready for personalized guidance, check out my coaching. Because you deserve to thrive through this transition — not just survive it.

Hormonally yours,

Kimberlee Erin

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Meeting Kim was a turning point in my perimenopause journey. I was overwhelmed by the constant fatigue and emotional ups and downs. Kim’s holistic approach helped me understand what my body was going through. Her personalized nutrition plans and stress management techniques have been a lifesaver. I now feel more balanced and in control of my health. Kim's support has been nothing short of amazing.

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