Is Perimenopause Running the Show (and Not Letting You Read the Script)?
Let’s change that—starting today.
Perimenopause can feel like a full-time job no one trained you for. The mood swings. The fatigue. The 3AM anxiety spirals. Sound familiar?
You don’t have to do this alone—and you shouldn’t
have to piece it together from late-night Google searches. That’s why I created these free guides to help you cut through the chaos and start feeling like you again.
Grab one now and get real-life tools to support your hormones, energy, mood, and more.
Hormone shifts during this time can cause symptoms like:
✅Hot flashes that hit out of nowhere
✅Mood swings that rival your teen years
✅Night sweats, brain fog, and libido plot twists
✅Irregular periods that love to keep you guessing
It can feel like your body’s rewriting the script without telling you—but here’s the thing:
You’re not broken. You’re transitioning. And it’s completely normal.
The key is having the right tools, support, and knowledge to navigate it with more clarity (and a lot less confusion).
Holistic Nutritionist. Certified Menopause Coaching Specialist. Midlife truth-teller.
I’ve been where you are—confused, exhausted, and wondering if I was the only one Googling “why do I feel like a hormonal alien?” at 3AM.
Now, I help women in midlife ditch the guesswork and get real support for their hormones, health, and emotional well-being. My approach blends science-backed tools, mindset shifts, and plenty of permission to not have it all together!
This isn’t just about surviving perimenopause.
It’s about reclaiming your energy, your mood, your body—and your joy.
My Approach: Real Support, Real Women, Real Results
✅You don’t need to “push through” or “just deal with it.”
✅Your symptoms aren’t in your head—they’re in your hormones.
✅Real change happens when we stop judging ourselves and start supporting ourselves (with food, movement, rest, and compassion).
As a Holistic Nutritionist and Menopause Coaching Specialist, I focus on science-backed strategies
blended with grace, humor, and zero shame. Whether you’re dealing with mood swings, fatigue, or a libido that ghosted you—there’s a way forward.
My work isn’t about perfection—it’s about giving your body what it needs and your mind the space to catch up.
“Energy is the essence of life. Every day you decide how you’re going to use it.” – Oprah Winfrey
Let’s be real—there are days in midlife when your get-up-and-go got up and left. You’re dragging through the afternoon with brain fog, low motivation, and that deep, soul-level exhaustion that no cup of coffee can fix. Sound familiar?
Welcome to perimenopause, where shifting hormones, stress, and life overload collide—and your energy pays the price.
But here’s the good news: You don’t have to settle for the slump. With a few key changes, you can revive your spark, balance your hormones, and feel more energized—naturally. No crash diets, no toxic positivity, and no caffeine dependency required.
Let’s dive in.
Forget the low-fat, low-carb, low-everything diets of the past. Your perimenopausal body is craving stability—especially in your blood sugar, mood, and energy. That starts with protein, healthy fats, fiber, and complex carbs.
💡 Try this:
Start your day with protein (aim for 25–30g): Think eggs, a protein smoothie, or Greek yogurt with seeds.
Ditch the sugar rollercoaster: Swap pastries for oatmeal with almond butter, and keep snacks like boiled eggs or hummus on hand.
Go for good fats: Salmon, avocado, nuts, and olive oil support brain health and energy.
Nutrient deficiencies are sneaky energy thieves. In perimenopause, you might need extra support to feel your best.
Here are some worth considering (always check with your healthcare provider):
Magnesium (especially glycinate or citrate): Calms nerves and supports muscle and energy function.
Vitamin B-complex: Vital for mood, metabolism, and mental clarity.
Vitamin D: Often low in midlife women and critical for energy and mood.
Iron: Especially if you’re dealing with heavy bleeding.
L-carnitine and CoQ10: Help your cells produce more energy.
Glycine and L-theanine: Promote restful sleep and reduce stress.
Melatonin: For sleep support when your circadian rhythm gets out of whack.
Feeling tired? Check your water intake. Dehydration often masquerades as fatigue—and midlife hormones can mess with your thirst cues.
🌿 Tips to hydrate with purpose:
Aim for 10–12 cups a day, more if you're sweating or drinking caffeine.
Add electrolytes—try a scoop of Vega Hydrate or sip on coconut water.
Infuse your water with cucumber, lemon, or berries if plain water feels boring.
Choose foods with high water content like watermelon, cucumber, and leafy greens.
Exercise isn’t just for calorie burn—it’s a hormonal tune-up. Movement boosts your mood, reduces anxiety, and increases energy by enhancing circulation and mitochondrial function (your body’s energy powerhouses).
✅ Try this:
Walk daily, even 10 minutes helps.
Add strength training 2–3 times a week—it helps with muscle loss, metabolism, and insulin resistance.
Yoga or stretching in the evening can ease tension and support sleep.
Poor sleep = poor energy. And during perimenopause, sleep can be a nightmare thanks to night sweats, anxiety, and cortisol spikes.
🛌 Sleep-supporting habits:
Stick to a consistent bedtime.
Make your bedroom cool, dark, and quiet.
Avoid screens 1 hour before bed—try reading, meditating, or a hot bath.
Consider magnesium or progesterone (if prescribed) for deeper sleep.
We don’t talk about it enough, but mental fatigue is real. Between hormone swings and the invisible workload many midlife women carry, burnout is common.
Start small:
Say no more often (it’s a full sentence).
Create daily affirmations like: “I am allowed to rest. I am worthy of feeling good.”
Celebrate the little wins. Did you make your smoothie? Walk the dog? That counts.
A well-planned day can help reduce stress, minimize decision fatigue, and keep your energy steady.
Here’s a hormone-supportive day in midlife:
Morning: Wake, hydrate, gentle movement, high-protein breakfast.
Midday: Balanced lunch with protein + fiber, outdoor break if possible.
Afternoon: Protein-based snack, short walk or stretch.
Evening: Light dinner, no caffeine, screen-free wind-down, magnesium, gratitude journal.
Set goals that excite you—not drain you. Instead of weight loss, try: “I want to feel strong enough to lift groceries without pain” or “I want to sleep through the night more often.”
Track your energy gains too—not just physical ones. Notice if you’re laughing more, snapping less, or waking up clearer.
Words matter, especially the ones you say to yourself.
Here are some midlife-friendly affirmations:
“I honor my body’s changes with compassion and curiosity.”
“I am allowed to rest, and I still matter.”
“Energy flows through me as I care for myself deeply.”
Say them daily. Put them on sticky notes. Chant them while brushing your teeth. Let them sink in.
You are not broken. You are not lazy. You are not making it up.
You are in a powerful transition—and energy is still possible. It just might look different now: slower mornings, smarter fueling, deeper rest, and softer ambition. That’s not weakness—that’s wisdom.
So go refill your water bottle, make a protein-rich snack, and give yourself permission to reset.
Because midlife isn’t the end of your energy—it’s the beginning of learning how to use it wisely.
Try my free guide: So. Damn. Tired: The 3-Day Energy Reset for Midlife Women
Need protein ideas? Grab the Protein Power Plates Recipe Guide and the Power Smoothie Bowls for Midlife Women
Struggling with sleep? Check out my blog: Tired, Wired, and Unheard: How Perimenopause Hijacks Sleep and Sanity
Hormonally yours,
Kimberlee Erin
Just a heads-up: I’m a Certified Menopause Coaching Specialist and Holistic Nutritionist, and while I love sharing what’s worked for me and my clients, this blog is for informational purposes only. It’s not a substitute for medical advice. Always check in with your healthcare provider before starting new supplements, hormones, or treatments—especially since every woman’s perimenopause journey is different. You deserve personalized care that truly fits you.
- LIZ
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